You Should Be Thankful For Bad Dates And Here’s Why
You probably read that title and thought, “how ironic.” But, it gives us a brief moment to tell you all about bad dates. We’ve all probably had a couple in our lifetime. Some bad dates were not as bad as others, but, nonetheless, they were dates all of us wish we never went on.
Don’t Discount Bad Dates Just Yet
We’ve all had less than desirable experiences while we were on dates, but we should not discount them right away because they were all charged to our experience. The following reasons might just change your mind about bad dates:
Bad Dates Teach Us Lessons
Most of the time, we have takeaways from the bad experiences we go through. You may not have noticed what exact lesson you learned from a bad date, but trust us when we say that you learned something. It could be to avoid a certain dating site or restaurant, or it could be to not wear a specific outfit for first dates.
Bad Dates Could Be a Good Change
You’re, most likely, reading this now because you’re looking for dating tips that could help you improve your dating life. It also means that you’re single. If you’ve dated the same way ever since you can remember, you’re doing something wrong. This is not to bring you down, or anything, but think about it. You could be stuck, repeating the same pattern over and over again. You could also be dating the same kind of people.
Hear us out. What you consider to be a “bad date” might just be the change you need. Break away from the usual and go for something different. For example, if you think you’re going to have the worst time with a girl who does not speak English well, you need to take the chance of dating this kind of girl.
You Do Not Expect Much
If you went on a bad date and it turned out to be a real bad date, you won’t be too down about it because you did not expect much at the beginning. That’s the beauty of bad dates; you start off expecting the worst. If you’re expectations turn out to be true, it’s no big deal. But, it would be the best thing in the world if your expectations prove to be false, wouldn’t it?
All of the negative experiences you’ve had in the past made you who you are today. You could be a stronger and better person because of what you had to go through. Bad dates are the same. Do you need more relationship and dating tips? Check out more posts on the blog.