Desperate Dating Acts You Should Never Do
There are things that you should never do when you are seeing someone consistently. The attraction and passion may be there, but when you do desperate dating acts, it lessens your value as well as your date’s attraction to you. Some moves can even be borderline creepy. But, what kind of actions are considered desperate?
Desperate Dating Acts That Will Scare Off Any Date
When we’ve already fallen for a person, we actually expect the person to feel the same exact thing as we do. This person (your date), though also attracted to you, may not be attracted to you with the same intensity. It’s best to dial down your excitement and avoid doing the following:
1. Writing Longer Messages Than Your Date
Let’s say that your date replies with three sentences. If you reply with ten, then it’s going to be weird. It’s going to seem like you’re too eager. If you can convey your message with just two sentences or three then go ahead.
2. Double Texting
Double texting happens when you text your date two times before he or she replies to your first message. It’s just like the first item, you will seem too eager for you to talk or interact with each other.
3. Confronting Your Date About Not Responding
If you feel upset that your date is not responding, then let your feelings pass. It’s so inappropriate for you to confront your date about not replying. It’s just like you forcing your date to reply. What if he or she is still busy or is doing something important?
4. Showing Up At Her Doorstep Unannounced
If you do this, it’s going to be so creepy. You should always tell your date if you’re coming over. If you just show up unannounced, it’s going to seem like you’re a stalker or the kind that gets obsessed over people you like.
Remember that these desperate dating acts will leave your date wanting to head for the hills. You don’t want that to happen. Just take things slow. This is the best way to approach your courting or dating. Focus on your own life and routine. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.