Your Emotional Connection Is Not As Deep As You Think With These Signs
When talking about being in a relationship with someone special, you’d expect to have a deep emotional connection with this person. In some cases, however, our expectations don’t really align with reality. No matter how special we think the person is, there’s always that chance that we might have misread the deepness of the emotional connection we have.
This Is How You Can Tell The Deepness Of Your Emotional Connection
Usually, when we are so in love with a person, we often misread signs. We think that everything is going the way we planned when really it isn’t. We expect outcome A, but what we get is outcome B. So, how can we avoid getting disappointed? How do we know how deep our emotional connection with a person really is?
1. Observe your conversations.
How do your conversations go, normally? You’ll know that you don’t really have a deep emotional connection with a person because your talks or chats will always seem fun. However, they won’t be deep. When a serious subject is discussed, the person you’re with may change the topic or avoid the question.
2. Little to no verbal affirmations.
It’s great to “walk the talk,” but it becomes a problem when it is just “walk” alone. People who don’t want to be involved emotionally don’t say lines like, “I love you” or “I care for you.” Instead, they are going to keep you hooked by giving gifts, or taking you to trips.
3. They don’t give a definitive answer for future events or plans.
Five months from now, let’s say that one of your relatives is getting married. You ask your new partner if he or she would like to attend the event with you. You will know that the emotional connection isn’t deep enough if your new beau gives you a non-commital answer.
It’s a bit disappointing to know that you may not be as deeply connected with a person as you thought. However, it is better to know early on before things progress. You’ll have an easier time moving on. For more dating and relationship tips, read other posts on the blog.