If You Spot This Social Media Activity, It Could Mean Trouble

How is your relationship with the love of your life right now? Are you in a good place, or does everything feel like they’re falling apart? Don’t worry if you’re not sure because plenty of couples can feel this way. Their relationship gauge isn’t strong. One way you can know is by checking both of your social media activity.

Reassess Your Relationship If You Observe High Social Media Activity

Of course, everyone has at least one social media account these days. We use our accounts to communicate with each other, share our emotions, and share information. However, what we don’t realize is that there’s more to tell with your social media activity than just sharing and communicating.

Oversharing Is A Bad Sign

Have you been constantly posting about your significant other on social media? If yes, then this is a red flag. For example, do you post your partner’s photo each day then put seemingly loving captions under it?

If this sounds familiar then you’re definitely overdoing it. You may think that it’s a good indication that your relationship status is totally fine, but it is actually the opposite. Experts say that oversharing on social media is a form of compensating for something that’s lacking in your relationship.

Let’s say you post about how you love your significant other, or how lucky you are to have him or her in your life. People will see and say, “Wow, they’re a loving couple.” Once or twice in a week is OK, but if you post something like this almost everyday or even every other day, it’s you compensating for the lack of love or passion in your relationship.

What To Do Next

When you see that you or your partner have high social media activity in terms of posting about your relationship, take the proactive step. Have a one on one with each other to check in.

You have to promise to be honest. Whatever you talk about, treat it as your starting point. If you truly care for the person you’re with, then talk about how you can fix whatever it is that’s broken. For more dating and relationship tips, read other posts on the blog.