Tips To Help You Decide Whether To Give A Second Chance Or Not
It’s tough to make decisions when you’re hurt and disappointed. Most likely, in the cases of broken relationships, the decision we need to make is whether we need to give a second chance or not. How would you know if it’s worth the chance? How would you know if there’s anything in your relationship worth saving? We answer the questions through this articles today.
Should You Go Or Give A Second Chance?
It’s tough to answer life changing questions when you are emotional. To tell you frankly, you’re not going to make the best decision when you are angry, sad or upset. You’ll be, most likely, basing your decisions on emotions that are temporary. So, the first step you do is to take time for yourself to process what has happened.
Whether it is an indecent of cheating, lying or manipulation, it’s best to take a step back and see the situation from a bird’s eye view. See the picture as a whole, calm down and process how you feel before you do decide on anything. Then, answer the following:
1. What Do Or Did You Love About Your Partner?
Answer this question with as much honesty as possible. When you have figured out the answer to this, think about whether what you love about your partner is still present. Or, better yet, if what you love about your partner is still visible to you.
2. Is There Anything In Your Relationship Worth Saving?
After you think long and hard about your answer to the first question, the next thing that you should think about is whether there is anything in your relationship that’s worth salvaging. It could be your partner’s efforts in providing for the both of you, or your partner could be showing signs that he or she is making the first move in reaching out to you. Whatever it is, make sure that it is a good enough reason for the relationship to be saved.
3. Do You Think That You Can Handle The Changes That Will Happen?
Figuring out the answers to the first two questions may be easier than this answering the third question. You have to ask yourself whether you are willing to go through the changes, as well as be patient enough to support your partner as he or she makes the changes.
Don’t decide before you answer these questions. It’s going to be a big change in your life so take your time with your decision. For more tips about relationships and self-improvement, head to our blog to read the rest of our posts.